ගින්න නිවා දැමිය හැක, එනමුත් ඒ ගිනි නිසා ගිනිගත් හිත් නිවා දැමිය නොහැක .. කියා දාර්ශනිකයෙක් කියා තිබුනා. අනුන්ගේ ජීවිත වලපල්ලට ගියත් ඒ මතින් තමන්ගේ ජීවිත ගොඩනගාගන්න හිතන අය දුටුවිට මට ඇතිවන්නේ පිළිකුලකි. අද වෙනසකටත් එක්ක එක බ්ලොග් සටහනක් ඉංග්රීසියෙන් ලියන්න හිතුනා.
Yesterday one of my friend came to see me with all her complains and troubles. Her boy friend left her and for that she wants to end her life, give up her carrier and so on (the usual drama). Everyone around her tried to calm her down by saying "dont think of such things, please think about your parents , think about your carrier. ending life is foolish" but she kept on saying that she would just end up her life.
I thought for awhile and told her "yeah ok dont listen to them, Ending up your own life for an idiot who doesn't think about u for a second ?... well I think thats a good idea go on with what ever u want" cause deep down in my heart I know that those who wants to suicide, never tell or boast that they are going to kill them selves.
She stopped her crying for a moment starred at me. wiped her tears and looked at me in a furious way and told me " No I will not end up my life for such a stupid idiotic person u are right" thinks for awhile and says " I'm hungry, lets eat some thing".
And thats it ! No more tears sister !
We all have problems.
All of us are struggling so hard to gain what ever we want or what ever others want us to achieve. Once upon a time in life education lessons, we learnt to replace problems with the word situations. When ever I heard or read about hard situations people face themselves in day to day life, I thought I'd not go on the same path as they did. But it doesn't always work out that way !
because all our life we live according to others measurements.
I explained my friend that if her boy friend had understood her and loved her he would never have left her in such a position. She wanted me to talk to her bf so that he would show his reasons for leaving her but I feel that there are times when its too hard to compromise everything even though communication is the only key which can unlock the hard situations and things going between all of us.From experience I know its always better to keep my silence and the distance, because for some people think they are always right.
(photo - taken by Me :D)